FILE - Seattle Thunderbirds defenseman Luke Prokop, right, is checked by Kamloops Blazers forward Logan Stankoven during the first period of a CHL Memorial Cup hockey game May 31, 2023, in Kamloops, British Columbia. (Jeff McIntosh/The Canadian Press via AP, File) (ASSOCIATED PRESS)FILE - Former NHL hockey executive Brian Burke walks in the Toronto Pride Parade, June 25, 2023. (Chris Young/The Canadian Press via AP, File) (ASSOCIATED PRESS)FILE - Los Angeles Kings goaltender Calvin Petersen (40) holds a stick wrapped in rainbow tape for Pride night while warming up before an NHL hockey game April 26, 2021, in Los Angeles. (AP Photo/Ashley Landis, File) (ASSOCIATED PRESS)FILE - Seattle Thunderbirds' Luke Prokop bites the blade of his stick as he looks on after the Quebec Remparts defeated Seattle during CHL Memorial Cup final hockey action, June 4, 2023, in Kamloops, British Columbia. (Darryl Dyck/The Canadian Press via AP, File) (ASSOCIATED PRESS)This image released by HBO Max shows Connor Storrie, left, and Hudson Williams in a scene from the series "Heated Rivalry." (HBO Max via AP) (ASSOCIATED PRESS)1 / 5Heated Rivalry Reality CheckFILE - Seattle Thunderbirds defenseman Luke Prokop, right, is checked by Kamloops Blazers forward Logan Stankoven during the first period of a CHL Memorial Cup hockey game May 31, 2023, in Kamloops, British Columbia. (Jeff McIntosh/The Canadian Press via AP, File) (ASSOCIATED PRESS)1 / 5Heated Rivalry Reality CheckFILE - Seattle Thunderbirds defenseman Luke Prokop, right, is checked by Kamloops Blazers forward Logan Stankoven during the first period of a CHL Memorial Cup hockey game May 31, 2023, in Kamloops, British Columbia. (Jeff McIntosh/The Canadian Press via AP, File) (ASSOCIATED PRESS)2 / 5Heated Rivalry Reality CheckFILE - Former NHL hockey executive Brian Burke walks in the Toronto Pride Parade, June 25, 2023. (Chris Young/The Canadian Press via AP, File) (ASSOCIATED PRESS)3 / 5Heated Rivalry Reality CheckFILE - Los Angeles Kings goaltender Calvin Petersen (40) holds a stick wrapped in rainbow tape for Pride night while warming up before an NHL hockey game April 26, 2021, in Los Angeles. (AP Photo/Ashley Landis, File) (ASSOCIATED PRESS)4 / 5Heated Rivalry Reality CheckFILE - Seattle Thunderbirds' Luke Prokop bites the blade of his stick as he looks on after the Quebec Remparts defeated Seattle during CHL Memorial Cup final hockey action, June 4, 2023, in Kamloops, British Columbia. (Darryl Dyck/The Canadian Press via AP, File) (ASSOCIATED PRESS)5 / 5Heated RivalryThis image released by HBO Max shows Connor Storrie, left, and Hudson Williams in a scene from the series "Heated Rivalry." (HBO Max via AP) (ASSOCIATED PRESS)STEPHEN WHYNOTue, April 28, 2026 at 3:30 PM UTC·7 min readLuke Prokop came out as gay to his mother, and while Nicole Prokop embraced her son's decision she had a very specific concern.
“She was worried about my hockey career and how it might impact it,” Prokop recalled.
Pioneers such as Jason Collins (NBA) and Carl Nassib (NFL) came out as gay while they were playing. The 23-year-old Prokop in 2021 became the first player drafted and signed by an NHL team to come out, though he has yet to play in the sport's top league. Like the NHL, no active Major League Baseball player has come out while playing.
With the popularity of the show “Heated Rivalry” featuring two gay players putting a spotlight on the sport, it raised the question of how an openly gay player would be accepted in the NHL. Key stakeholders point out there are challenges but say hockey is primed for the emergence of another pioneer.
“I think people are ready for this,” said longtime league and team executive Brian Burke, whose late son Brendan came out in 2009 and made his father one of the leading advocates for LGBTQ+ access. "A player like that would be welcomed. Now, he’d face some hard right-wing criticism and social media abuse, but I think we’re ready for it.”
Collins in 2013 became the first active player in one of the four North American major professional men's sports leagues to come out. Nassib in 2021 — a month before Prokop — became the first in the NFL. There are a number of openly gay players in top women's leagues, including the WNBA and PWHL.
Burke, who was executive director of the PWHL Players' Association from 2023-25, said he is surprised a player in the best men's hockey league in the world has not yet come out.
There are myriad reasons it hasn't happened yet, from concerns over the feelings of family members and teammates to the team-centric culture of hockey that discourages standing out for any reason.
“Hockey players don’t want attention and they’re going to deem it as there’s a concern that a team would see it as a distraction because of all the attention it would get,” said retired goaltender Brock McGillis, who came out after his career ended. “If you’re not a star and you’re a bubble (player), are you really going to risk that to potentially change the trajectory of your career? Maybe you get cut. Maybe you get sent down. Are you going to take that chance?”
McGillis considers men’s hockey one of, if not the most difficult, sports to come out in “because of the language, behaviors and attitudes that are pervasive in the culture.” Homophobic language is part of it.
“When I played, homophobic language was acceptable," said Burke, whose on-ice career in college and the minors came in the '70s. “It was encouraged. There’s only a handful of words you could use to say something hateful, and those were it. Referring to homosexual acts, it was commonplace, and I’m ashamed to say I was one of those guys.”
Kurt Weaver, executive director of the You Can Play nonprofit that advocates for LGBQT+ inclusion in sports, said that while homophobic language still persists in local rinks and games at many age levels, the NHL has worked with the organization and others to significantly reduce the presence of anti-gay slurs.
“There’s a massive reduction of homophobic language at the NHL level — in those locker rooms, in those organizations, in the front offices, coaches to players, players to coaches — in that environment,” Weaver said. “If you would be sitting in a locker room in 2011 when we got started and then today, it is a vastly different environment as it goes toward homophobic, racist and other hateful language."
A strong supporter of Pride and other inclusionary efforts, Scott Laughton has seen it playing more than a decade in the NHL with Philadelphia, Toronto and now Los Angeles.
“It’s changed a lot,” Laughton said. “A lot of it is language, the way you speak, and I think those (things) affect people a lot. I think it’s going in the right direction.”
Prokop's experience is an example of progress. When he came out at age 19, the Canadian said the response was “nothing but positive," at the time with Calgary of the Western Hockey League and then on six subsequent teams.
“Everywhere I’ve gone, everyone’s been open, honest, really positive,” said Prokop, who plays in the American Hockey League for the team Bakersfield, California. “Every team I’ve gone to, all the guys have been fantastic about it, and I have no reason to think that it would be any different if a player would come out in the NHL, say, tomorrow.”
Prokop was worried about how he would be perceived, and McGillis said the two spoke almost every day for months before the 6-foot-5, 220-pound defenseman decided to come out. Drafted by Nashville in the third round in 2020, the Predators' front office and coaching staff were among the people who needed to be informed. A call with them assuaged a lot of Prokop's fears.
“They said it was the right thing to do, that they wanted to help in any way they could,” Prokop said. “They thought I was really brave for doing this, and they had my back every step of the way.”
Burke, 70, expects a negative outcry from people of his age range and on social media, something he said Brendan dealt with until his death in a car crash in early 2010. Then he expects an outpouring of support. He said he wished it had happened when he was general manager of an NHL team.